Tuesday, October 05, 2004

i think i've been a bit extreme...in the sense that i've been too harsh. mattay and chere have helped me to realise that. i think i've been too kancheong. i wonder if i'm been JUDGING others....and chere helped me to realise that

we judge the action not the person first of all

then

when we judge

we dont judge cos we think we are better
when we judge

we must first acknowledge our lackings

and understand the other person's imperfections

and we judge more like to tell the person that u dont think its right.. and more importantly... the bible says its wrong

but u shldnt treat the person differently

or blame the person

i need to think where i've gone wrong...so here's to apologise to everyone, notably to people i i've condemned, and treated differently. i guess i've not been very tactful in the way i approach ppl...i need to understand their situation better before i say anything. ^_^


matthew admired God's creations at 7:26 PM [comment]

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